Archive - Deviant's Domain

August 2025

How to Use FetLife’s Own Rules to Protect Yourself

The August 26 deactivation was just the beginning.

Aug 29 •

Things to Consider Before You Deactivate Your FetLife Account

Especially for those participating in the August 26 protest

Aug 25 •

Is Black Throb Really a Safer Alternative to FetLife?

Observations and Reccomendations

Aug 25 •

Community Safety Scores

Here's How I'm Vetting Sites

Aug 25 •

Control Isn't Clarity

When Boundries Become Ultimatums

Aug 21 •

Three Strikes for Fantasy Pushing, Silence for Hate Speech

FetLife’s Escalation Gap

Aug 20 •

Monogamous & Monogamish: What You Might Be Missing

Understanding Monogamy in a Non-Monogamous World

Aug 14 •

Polyamory and the Performance of Progressiveness

You Know What Grinds My Gears: About Polyamory

Aug 12 •

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