WhatTheFet Is Next
No Titty Tuesday Is Coming and Phase Two Starts Now
FetLife loves to brand Tuesdays as Titty Tuesday.
This week, we’re flipping that tradition into protest.
On Tuesday, September 16th, there will be no titties.
No pics. No videos. Only statuses.
We’re calling it No Titty Tuesday.
This is the kickoff to something bigger: No TittyTober. All through October, every Tuesday will be titty-free on Fet. Instead of flooding the platform with the content it thrives on, we’ll take that energy elsewhere. We’ll take it into protest, into visibility, and into community spaces that actually hear us.
Why We’re Doing This
Because FetLife profits from our presence while:
Silencing users through vague policies and biased moderation
Failing to protect against harassment and abuse
Ignoring calls for transparency and safety
They want our content, but they don’t want our voices. So we’ll make our absence louder than our presence.
Phase 2 of #WhatTheFet
Here’s the roadmap so you can see the whole picture:
📅 Sept 16 — No Titty Tuesday
No pics, no videos, only statuses.
Disrupt the feed. Spark curiosity. Build awareness.
📅 October — No TittyTober
Every Tuesday in October = No Titty Tuesday.
A whole month of disruption, just like No Shave November flipped culture.
Our content shifts off-platform — into solidarity spaces like Telegram.
📅 Oct 31–Nov 2 — 72-Hour Strike + Letter Flood
Deactivate for 72 hours.
During that time, we write and send letters directly to Fet.
Our withdrawal from the platform is paired with a flood of voices they can’t ignore.
Why the Letter Flood Matters
WhatTheFet started because I, a Black woman, saw other Black women sharing similar stories of bias, harassment, and fantasy pushing on Fet with little done by the Caretakers to protect them.
But this movement is not just for Black women. It is for everyone on Fet who:
Has experienced harassment
Has seen biased or uneven moderation
Has been silenced or punished unfairly
Feels unsafe because policies are vague, consequences inconsistent, or enforcement unclear
The truth is: I don’t have visibility into every corner of FetLife. I don’t have the unique experiences of every sub-community. That’s why this protest includes you.
The Letter Flood is your chance to speak directly to Fet. To tell them:
What you’ve experienced
Where you’ve felt unsafe
How Caretakers failed to care
Why their policies feel biased, vague, or harmful
Together, these letters will show that this is not one person’s issue. It’s not one community’s issue. It is systemic.
This Halloween, while Fet feels our absence, they will also feel our voices.
How to Join
Start this Tuesday. Don’t post pics or videos. Drop a status instead:
“It’s Tuesday and there are no titties. No pics. No videos. Just statuses. #NoTittyTober #WhatTheFet”Spread the word. Share the protest image HERE and tag friends.
Commit to October. This isn’t just one Tuesday, it’s a movement.
On Halloween weekend: Deactivate for 72 hours and send your letter. I’ll provide a guide to help you frame your story.
This is Phase 2 of #WhatTheFet.
We’re not just protesting — we’re documenting.
We’re not just pulling back — we’re speaking up.
And this time, FetLife won’t be able to look away.
Capt. Chaos
Offered in support: As a graphic designer I can assist in making graphics for these campaigns, I have made one and hosted it on imgur for this phase.
If you'd like to use it you are welcome to it without any need for attribution:
https://imgur.com/a/d8oIuJb
The lack of my titties may not be a great loss to Fet, but here I can spread the word in support as always.